DEAR DEIDRE: MY fiancé has become a tattoo artist. I have always hated inkings and I don’t know if I will be able to cope with his new lifestyle.
We got engaged before he got into this. He is 32, I am 29.

I feel I ought to be supporting him but I didn’t realise that he would want to do this.
He was training to become a hair stylist, but jumped at this new opportunity when a friend offered him the chance to share in his tattooing business.
It means he is surrounded by girls who are happy to get naked in front of him or ask for free tattoos.
I am assuming this is in exchange for something! These “customers” don’t care he that already has a girlfriend.
DEIDRE SAYS: A tattoo artist has to be properly trained, qualified and registered, because bad practice could harm customers.
Your fiancé and his friend should be complying with the law.
Is their tattoo parlour really the hotbed of steamy nudity you imagine?
Keep asking your fiancé about how his day went. If you suspect something iffy, be firm you won’t stay around if he plays around.
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